Quote: I'm in a bit of a rough patch as it was one year ago this week that she annouced "A" & "D" in the same night.
Sorry you're hitting a rough patch.
Quote: Ooops, sorry to ramble on your thread, but you have made remarkable process in such a short period of time.
Don't apologize for rambling. I enjoy the insights from reading the parallels in other sitches. Are we forever going to remain overly conscious about what "might" happen again in our situations? Will this "pressure" to DB ever diminish you think? I'm simply hoping it will become second nature and that I won't directly focus on it so much anymore.
In terms of making progress in a short amount of time, I don't really think I have. I mean, in terms of when I started DBing I've made relatively quick progress; however, I've been at it since 10/01. And like I said, I'm just tired. I feel like coasting a little and letting my W pick up the slack a bit. However, I've always felt like I've carried our R a bit more than her. For many years I've felt this...giving and giving...and not receiving so much in return. My thanks for doing this was her having an A. It might be negative, KAW, but like I said, I'm just tired...