Quoting jethro:
I don't know, but I'm just tired and want my W to express her undying love for me so I can feel we're officially D-Busted...
Jet, I know what you mean ... I'm still waiting, too. Actually, I'm beginning to believe that unconsciously we are anticipating some grand gesture from our S that will give us closure to our nightmare and that this expectation will go unfilled because the closure needs to come from within. Also, DBing is an ongoing process for as long as you want a better, happier M. To that end, there should will never be any closure to DBing and in that I find myself caught of a Catch-22, in that my conscious effort to continue the positive is a constant reminder of how and why I got here in the first place. Sorry, I'm in a bit of a rough patch as it was one year ago this week that she annouced "A" & "D" in the same night.

This past weekend, my W made a rare reference to last year. I just received a cell phone and as we were getting ready to go out shopping, I grabbed it. She asked, why I was taking it. I answered, in case we get seperated, we could call each other. She retorted, "We won't get seperated. I thought that is what you fought so hard for last year?" with a smirk. I just stood there dumbfounded for what seem like forever. I just didn't have a response for that, eventually we gave each other a hug. Also, this week, she gave me an "ILY" and followed it with "I don't say that as often as I should.", but it didn't seem to help much on a emotional level, but an intellectual level, it is comforting to know the effort is being made.

Ooops, sorry to ramble on your thread, but you have made remarkable process in such a short period of time. That's something to hang your hat on.

'til later,
KAW