Wow..that is interesting Rob. We never know what path our lives will take. I do know that I am getting myself back to the person I used to be...but with more experience and knowledge. The person she fell in love with...and the person I loved. Gotta love yourself right? Not saying she will ever come back...don't think she will. Just saying that I had my very dark time and I am finding the true me again.
You are also right that stepping into a new R without first fixing your issues is a very bad idea. I know I have learned my issues through this and from all of you. I think she has learned some, seems happier at times but I think she still has a hard time implementing some of what she has learned. If they end up together, hopefully he can help her do that.
Whapu - thanks so much for checking and for the kind words....minus the pats comment! Moss???? hmmmm. A vast self-esteem....interesting. Thanks man.