I completely understand where you are. My H will not break ties with OW, so just like you I'm done. I feel like I did everything that I could to save my marriage. I tried to hold and help my H, but he won't even start to help himself and learn from this. We can't even see if we still have a M that is worth working on while he is involved with OW.
All of us on here have taken time to find out who we are and what we want, while a lot of our spouses have taken their time to run to someone else, live in denial, and treat anyone that comes in there way horrible. We are better people and saying that you are moving on doesn't make you any less of a person. Hang your head high. You gave it your all.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
