Quote: You know, I do the exact same thing. If I don't get some sort of physical attention from my W, then I feel distant from her. And, after sex, I usually feel pretty good about things. (why is it that I'm talking about sex so much lately on my posts?) It does seem like your H is trying a little harder in this department?
I wonder sometimes if I am in the wrong skin...men seem to need the physical contact to feel close...and that is the way I feel...women seem to need the emotional connection to feel close and feel it spoiled when it leads to physical contact that is sexual...me when the emotional doesn't lead to physical I tend to feel a bit resentful...and start to wonder who's who in this r... perhaps even though our r's are not sex starved (though sometimes I feel it is) we should read michelles new book..she even sent me an autographed copy!! I just don't feel like being the one to do all the re-search and work while h just takes it one day at a time and does what comes naturally. (or doesn't for that matter )
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