Flicka~ thanks and yeah when I stay calm he gets more angry. He is sick,, and it makes me feel like a fool for loving him still. You cant just stop loving him in a day,,,, I am so frusrated. And yes I was proud of myself for not engaging that is what she wanted me to do,, and my best GF said to call her back and interogate her. I will do no such thing and give this whore satisfaction that she hurt me . Well actually she di dnot hurt me he did and this is just pathetic that so called Women act like this,,, and if she thinks she can ..... YUCK double yuck . is all I can say.