I also want to add to Cori's post. DO NOT LET YOUR LOVE FOR YOUR XW CLOUD YOUR JUDGMENT OR YOUR PATH.
That is the toughest part of all of this. It is so easy to become a doormat when we try to lovingly detatch that is where the firm stand comes in. Just be firm and fair that is all you can do.
As well as continue to treat her as you would want to be treated even if she is not doing it. This is the part where your kids will learn and strive.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
