H and I have changed counsellors temporarily and are now going to a ST to try and deal with the lack of sex in our marriage. We have gone to 3 sessions and it is already making a HUGE difference in our intimacy with each other. We still haven't had IC but we aren't "allowed" to at this point. ST wants us to experience sensate focusing for a while (getting in tune with each other's bodies) before we jump into that. He assigns "homework" which sometimes is like pulling teeth with H but we are getting there.
The ST we are going to got his Doctor of Philosophy from the Institute For Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in California so perhaps you could find one that has the same. This guy is AMAZING and I am totally impressed with him but the real surprise is SO IS MY H. This is a BIG plus.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
