Her behaviour around me isn't the behaviour of someone who is [still] involved with anyone else.
That might be the case PHYSICALLY but not necessarily emotionally. She is most likely still dealing with a lot of emotion regarding the OP and sorting through a lot of things in her head. As much as I truly believe the betrayed spouse suffers more emotion and pain than the betrayer (and this has been confirmed in all the books I have read AND by both the MC I have gone to) they, in their own right, are suffering too. They have to deal with a lot of emotions too.
Just her being with you now, as opposed to the OP, doesn't make it all go away
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)