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Her behaviour around me isn't the behaviour of someone who is [still] involved with anyone else.


That might be the case PHYSICALLY but not necessarily emotionally. She is most likely still dealing with a lot of emotion regarding the OP and sorting through a lot of things in her head. As much as I truly believe the betrayed spouse suffers more emotion and pain than the betrayer (and this has been confirmed in all the books I have read AND by both the MC I have gone to) they, in their own right, are suffering too. They have to deal with a lot of emotions too.

Just her being with you now, as opposed to the OP, doesn't make it all go away


Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)