Also my problem before (when my sitch went pear shaped) was constantly ringing her family about our problems and talking about W behind her back (very wrong). Also contantly "hanging around"
Hi AndyV, I would like a little insight on this. I am having the same problem in my sitch. My H gets upset if I talk to or spend time with his family. We have been together 11 years and were always closer to his family than mine. It's bad enough that I had to lose my husband and now he wants me to lose his family too because they are "his". My H moved 3 hours away from his family but I still live very close to them and they want to spend time with me. Looks like my marriage is over anyway at this point, so maybe I just stop caring. He can't tell me who I can and can't talk to. Any suggestions? He is already mad at a lot of them because they aren't willing to accept OW with open arms. It's amazing how selfish and angry my H as become. As a side note, I have talked to some of his family about our sitch, but only after he had already gone to them. I know this was a bad idea, but I would have filed for D months ago if it wasn't for my ils (bittersweet I guess).
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