We shall see. I have not waivered one bit in my behavior. The changes I made have stuck and XW probably thought it was an act and as soon as the D went final I would revert. Nope. I miss her at times and still care for her, but I am staying busy making new friends, male and female. And to be honest, female attention feels pretty good right now. Nothing serious and that's the way I want it. I have read a bit of your story and it sounds like you have made good progress after your D. Any tips?