I am 5'5", and I go between a size 8 and 12 being my highest and I wear a D cup
Out of all this all I got is you are 5'5". the rest is giberish I don't know girl size things. But from the pic's I have seen ya look good to me. Don't let him make ya feel bad. Get some sleep.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
hey Ali Looking at your pic and reading your sitch it seems like 2 different people. It’s hard to put your ugly words from him to that beautiful face of yours.
Husband
Thank you sweetie you have reduced me to tears. I needed that . Do you see any resemblence to THE BLOB, green looks soooooooooooooooo good on me if you'd like an autograph I can send you one... LOL Thanks H you are a doll. LOVE, Ali MY h usually calls me everyday by now and it is now 8 am where he is no call and when I called it goes straight to VM~
Alimari, you are a fabulous beauty with a big heart. Your husband is inventing complaints to bring you down to his level. He is one of them that needs to belittle in order to feel alright. As you get distance on his "problems", as you start to see clearly, he will up the ante. His insults, verbal and active, will become more aggressive.
If you know this and expect it you can plan how to defend your feelings and how to guard your responses. I think it is hilarious that women are calling you. Appreciate the fact that they are threatened by you but resist the inclination to "engage". That will just encourage. It will also please your husband. The thought of women 'fighting' over him twists his tail in a delightful way. He gets off on the drama.
It is important to substitute other currency for that kind of interaction. Please remember that even if you were a troll, it is more important that you are a troll that is well read and has a golden heart. Kindness matters more than appearance.
I am certain your own mother was the sort to follow you around screeching "pretty is as pretty does"!
As one of your numerous Cyber Mothers, I am here to say that you are Pretty in all ways. Just do not worry so much about proving it to your miserable husband. He will just find new ways assure you that you are not! Maybe he needs help feeling like a good man.
It would be right to be grateful for whatever he IS able to provide and tell him that. He is struggling and probably feels like a jerk most of the time. Help to become a better jerk!
Ali - That garbage about your looks just makes me angry. You ARE a beautiful woman. It is obvious by the things that you write that your heart is genuine.
The thing is Ali - if you were his "trophy wife", he would find something else. You need to feel good about you. If you want to lose weight and transform your body, then do it for you. Not for someone who keeps coming up with things that are wrong with you.
H~ yeah it is hard to understand my H's drunken "speak". I dont even understand it? he called me in the middle of the nite 1 am and I heard "call me private" and he was actually asking " are you calling me private" and I said sure why do you want me to call you private.. I was more asleep than awake. why as his "wife would I ever do that... he drinks far too much and he has literally lost his mind!!!!! ~Ali
Thanks guys you are all so sweet and making me cry,,, yeah I know I am a beautiful person and by that I mean who I am ( beauty fades),,, and no I dont want to be a TROPHY wife,,, when I saw the movie stepford wives years ago I thought wow he would be better off ordering one of those cause I am real and not a ROBOT. Thanks you all for your support I really need it today,, I feel like I want to just give up on my M.... he needs help.
