What I said in response is that I am being pretty squeezed here with paying all of the mortgage and household bills. There is no way that I can help her with the child care bill. I also told her that I will probably have to work more OT to just get by.......
I actually did handle the exchange well, I did get pissed, but I dont think I let it show. When I got in my car and drove away, well if she has my car bugged, well then she will know how I felt about it.......lol
I was thinking about all of this and it seems like she is trying to push me into making some sort of move here. Make me do something to escalate the situation so then she could have an excuse? not sure....whatever....I need to let go of all of this for a bit....