Hi - hope you don't mind me ducking in here. I'm coming over from the MLC thread as my H and I appear to be working on things.
But I was feeling exactly these types of emotions and wondering if anyone else was too. We've worked so hard to get our spouses back and now they are, for the most part, and we wonder why we were fighting so hard, in a way.
I just don't feel the intensity of emotion right now and I've got people pushing on me in all kinds of directions. Everyone wanting me to feel what they feel I should feel and telling me that I don't understand my feelings. It's very difficult.
It is not helped by the fact that I am at home living with family right now and my H is very far away, so our communications are complicated by that.
Sorry for the thread hijack, but it's nice to know that others share my feelings. Best of luck to everyone.
