OM/PA, MLC and the hits keep coming............Pt2

[andyv]

My day,

Got home last night from work at around 9:30pm, wife was still up with DD (DD colouring in and W watching TV). This is the fourth night in a row that W has stayed up to watch her favourite shows (something she has not done in several months).

I changed into my "leisure suit" and then left wife upstairs to watch TV, whilst I went into my office. As I was on the phone to a friend, W came down to ask whether I could check DD's math homework (as she was not sure how to complete it with DD). I said sure.

This morning, as I was at work, W rang me to tell me that she was letting me know she had bought DD a new hat for school and gym gear. I told her that I would put money on her credit card for the purchase. She was in a nice mood towards me (something I have not experience in a long time). I kept the conversation brief and pleasant. I don't know why she would call me to tell me, when it could wait till I got home.

I have stopped calling her at work for a few months now. All our contact is instigated by her (or I will ring if it involves an urgent matter with DD)

Overall she has been very pleasant towards me over the last few weeks, and other than being a little aloof, her personality is slowly starting to return.

I have been GALing and "lovingly dark" for over a month now, and have noticed that things have "eased" somewhat. I will not overanylize these last few weeks, as I mentioned earlier (and after looking at DNQ's sitch), it could be the calm before the storm (re divorce papers).

But I will continue to DB, keep out of her space, be there for my DD and be as pleasant as I can be and continue my PMA.

Also my problem before (when my sitch went pear shaped) was constantly ringing her family about our problems and talking about W behind her back (very wrong). Also contantly "hanging around"/

I have not spoken to anyone in her family for over a month.

Tonight I will be going out to dinner with my sister (W doesn't know my "movements"). She told me she was going to take DD to her mums to visit.

Tomorrow she has not told me what she would be doing (probably out till late Sun morning, as usual), but I have organised a few friends to come over for "smally eats" and beers, and DVDs/Xbox360.

DD will be with us, and she loves to "whip" my friends arses on "Lego Star Wars II". So I will let her play before bed, then the big boys will be slogging it out on "Fight Night".

I hope all of you have a great weekend.