NDDT - caught up on your thread. Some good stuff in there. I especially liked all the info you attached on detaching, but Peanut's post was my favorite. And I thought you next post (6/20 about 11:30 am) was just awesome!

On the car insurance, does she have a point? Are there things she is handling where it could be divided like sitter fees? Just curious. I'm not taking her side, but take a moment after you cool off to really try to see her position. If you talk to her again, you will need to validate her position. Can you do it here first? And note, this is a chance to show her how much you've learned and are changing, because you have and you are.

BTW, from what you posted, it sounds like you handled the exchange well. What did you say in response?

Nomopo

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