Sorry, but I disagree with your definition of unconditional love.
Unconditional love is a concept that means showing love towards someone regardless of his or her actions or beliefs.
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In fact, unconditional love means that you are not afraid to treat her the way she deserves to be treated for her choices.
This sounds more like CONDITIONAL love to me. "In conditional love: love is 'earned' on the basis of conscious or unconscious conditions being met by the lover, whereas in unconditional love, love is 'given freely' to the love one 'no matter what'
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You know what, I wonder about your self esteem sometimes
I don't see anything wrong with Scott's self esteem just because he wants to be there for his wife. I think he has shown great strength of character to treat his wife the way he does with everything that she has put him through.
I don't expect for you to agree with me, because you never do, but you should turn the mirror back on yourself. I think some of these things are issues of your own and not Scott's.
You right, I won't agree with you at all and am quite surprised you had the cahonas to post back at me, I'm shocked by you. Of course the shot about turning it back on myself was uncalled for, but I expect no less from you Kristy as you still resent my honesty with you. SO.. anyway.....
You completely missed the point Kristy, as usual because you get defensive anytime anyone differs from you. Unconditional love does mean that you accept their faults, it also means that you love them enough to be honest and real with them. If you are mad, you express anger (in an acceptable form, not yelling or screaming), if you are sad, you tell them, if you are happy, you tell them. My point to Scott on this, which HE completely got was that unconditional love does not mean that you sacrifice your own well being. If you had bothered to really read Kristy you would have seen that.
Secondly, Swashy and I have a very close relationship. He knows damn well that he has some self esteem issues when it comes to his wife and being without her. Again, you stick your fuckingg nose in where you do not understand and tell me to point it back on me. Wrong again kristy, my self esteem is just fine. I won't even go into yours because we all know where it stands now don't we.
The one thing that you should know after all these months is that Swashy and I have a very special relationship. That relationship is built on trust and honesty with one another. We both depend on one another to bring to light the way that we feel about each others posts. If Swashy had issue with my posts he would have told me so. He didnt, you did. Again sticking your nose where it does not belong. Shocker.
I kind of thought that you and I had an understanding to not post to one another and I have respected that. I would appreciate if you would do the same for me as we so obviously do not process thought the same way. I don't really give a sh^t if you dispute my opinions, but don't turn it back on me and not expect me to respond. You haven't earned the right to analyze me Kristy.......fair enough.....
Now back to Swashy........sorry for the interuption bud, and you can yell at me for this post later........
