Scott, I am late to this discussion. I will keep this short and simple.... Whatever you did or however you acted was no reason for your W to go have an affair. . Plain and simple. The WAS's say " WE" pushed them to it. I call BULLSH!t. My STBX got very needy and jealous a few years back cause I worked alot. Did I start to dislike him... YES!... Did I want to leave him.. I thought about it. Did the idea of running into some other guys arms ever cross my mind cause he was being emotionally abusive?? NO! DID I choose to stay in my marriage and voice to him what I felt. YES... I made a choice to do the right thing unlike our WAS's. Scott you are a wonderful man. Smart, funny, handsome, caring, sweet, kind, gasey Please dont sell yourself short. ok. done. caring on...
luv ya !!!
Last edited by shoeprincess; 06/22/0703:45 AM.
found out about affair 8/06 H moves out Nov/06 D final 8/07 X re marries OW 5/08 _________________________ Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow". -- Mary Anne Radmacher
Please dont sell yourself short. 