Hey all. I am stirring the pot here on the sex issue I see...

Floyd, yes, I agree the discussion between the two WAWs was beneficial to each of them. Of course, my W is a little further along in the healing process, but nonetheless, it's good that she hears it ain't so great on the living alone side.

LL, you're tough...really pinning me down on this one. I feel as though I'm not making my point very well. Maybe it's because I don't have a very good one?!?! Basically, it comes down to the fact that sex now helps me feel connected to her. This will evolve over time when I begin to connect with her in different ways. For now, sex is a means to an end...a way to keep me going, so to speak, while the other connections begin to flourish.

Sue, you can ramble any time you please. No worries. I fully agree that, "there can be so much more to a r than the 'sex.'" I have had this some years back and am excitedly anticipating the reconnection to these things.

Hey Jim! My W's not upset with you. She just "feels" for each of you guys. Yes, I'm waiting for the infamous ILY, but I don't expect to hear it for some time yet. It's okay...I can wait. Other things do seem to be coming along nicely, so it makes it easier to wait.

Until next time...

jethro