Living in SC, he doesn't know anything except what I've told him. He is one of the people I talked to after coming out of MLC. He knows I'm standing. It's just bizarre to him.
But as long as everyone is getting along, he's happy. He is very sensitive so he doesn't need the details. He's older now and I recognize that he blames himself for not being around when my sister and I were young. He only really reconnected with us once we had kids of our own. My mother drove him so far away he could hardly ever contact us when we were kids. He has been making up for it through our children. He thinks a lot of my husband and vice versa. Two good men that would do things differently if they could...