Cades Sometimes I FEEL even though most of the people here will disagree with me. You do have to face an issue. I know nothing about timing. Everyone tells me it's too early in my sitch to talk R Ok I can wait a little longer. But this is an issue you are now forced to confront. It is not a bad thing. It's something that if you didn't deal with you probably would have wondered about. Was he going to file? Would he have filed? ECT. So now you know the answer to these questions and they will no longer linger in your mind.
Now HE DID NOT FILE.... YOU WERE NOT SERVED. This is a good thing. What changed in those 2 to 3 weeks that changed his mind? Did you start doing something different?
I would not press to hard on what changed his mind. You need to discuses the bill. But I would not push the reason for not filing. I am not even going to speculate why he didn't file because WE would be filling I the blanks most likely with negative reasons.
Sept is coming soon.... Smile you can't be worthless... I could be outside enjoying the first day of a California Sumer but No I here writing you. That must mean you are worth something. At least to us.
Husband Remember I give good advice. I just don't follow it.
After reading ERC I agree. No use bringing it up now. What the heck was I thinking?? Pay it put it away.
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And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know