Cadesmom34, First things first you are not worthless. Get that nonsense out of your head.
Alright lets talk about that bill. I know getting it is going to eat at you, but what does bringing it up to him do for you. He is overseas and you are at home. If he really wanted to get D you would have been served by now. WAS are cowards(sorry they are) and being thousands of miles away would be the perfect time to file for him. You are going to see him in August right? Do you think bringing this up is going to make your sitch any better? (probably not).... You have taken the high road many times during your M and maybe the highroad t his time is not saying anything rightnow. If you feel like you really need to mention it to him please sleep on it for a week....After a week you think that you still need to mention it then OK go for it....Just my .02$