Ok somewhat po'd right now. I just dropped off my child to the WAW. I was upbeat as I could be. I did bring up the subject of money. I did not say anything about her not contributing anything towards mortgage. I just asked her if she would contribute $40 a month to cover her portion of the auto ins. She gets all snotty with me. It was like she was waiting for me to bring up the money issue as she had a prepared answer......Are you willing to contribute 1/2 the money towards child care???
I have our daughter 1/2 of the time! Yeah she has her at a sitter when she is working, but well that is her concern not mine. She is living with her sister, so I dont see her bills to be that pressing that $40 a month should seem that unreasonable. It seems to me that she is really trying hard to jam me up financially.
I suppose I could just call the insurance agent up and have the ins bill split and have her part sent directly to her....but I am trying not to escalate this thing. Also right now she is covered under health ins from my work. If she does ever have to get her own health ins from her job it is going to ding her budget hard, the benifits on my job are much much more reasonable than hers.
So I ask you guys, was it unreasonable for me to ask her to pay her share of the auto ins??? What could she possibly gain by jamming me up financially? If this house were to go into foreclosure she is gonna get burnt too....
Also for the record, she actually makes a little bit more $$ than I do. And 1 more for the record, I can still float all the bills it just will be a bit tighter, and I may have to work like 1 day of OT a month to do it.......
In my opinion I dont think my request was unreasonable, and also in my opinion she is just being an A-hole about this......ARRRRRRRGGGGG