MJP, Thanks for your kind words as well. It helps to have someone to sound off to, doesn't it? People that haven't been through what all of us on here on going through can give advice all day long. You just never know until you have experienced it. I would never have thought I would have put up with as much as I have these past 8 months. You know funny thing is I used to think that the betrayed should be mad at the betrayer because they were the one that had the committment to them, but I found myself angrier at the OW. Don't get me wrong I was very hurt and angry at my H, but I wanted to blame her the most. I now know by reading books, that if our M was solid she would not be with him now. Nonetheless, it still hurts like heck.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
