stopping by quickly (don't have alot of time dd just woke up from nap)
things seem to be going well but it seems to me that in a short amount of time you and w have been having alot of r talks. this can be good but it can also end up being overload.
maybe it would be best to for now at least try to just focus on enjoying eachother...doing nice things together like you did the other night going to dinner...or even better the other night when w went to bed early and you had a nice conversation. seems like maybe the activities in the books are not something to work on right now...or pace them out...once a month type thing with time set aside for it (noticed you said there were interuptions during the activity and that is not a good thing)
do have to run as I hear dd calling....maaameeee? maameee?? oh gotta love um...just had a snow ball fight with s (3) and h is napping on the couch in "cave".