Originally Posted By: Jet
Update on trip:
She then said...."Personally".....I braced for the worst thinking here comes something bad....."I think we need to take a trip alone, if that is something you would be interested in."

As for judging the weekend. There aren't any physical signs of interest on her part such as touching, flirty, complimentary, etc......When apart there are the daily emails, text messages, or phone calls......so we shall see.Jet


Hey Jet, you are a good man,

What I've quoted above, LOL, that's a classic case of not seeing the wood from the trees. LOL

She suggested that you take a trip alone? Man, pack the lube and the sex toys. You're going to be riding high.

Then again, you are looking to read between the lines frantically searching for baby steps.

Could it be possible Jet, that the vibes from seeing the pic was all in your mind? I can sort of relate to that moment. Maybe you were the cause of the discomfort that was felt?

Man, you are doing fine. If you could just kick back, continue being the great person that you are, as a daily ritual, recite the things that you are grateful for, don't stress over the will she/won't she....everything is going to fall into place.

If you feel inclined, get yourself a copy of "The Way Of the Superior Man" by David Deida. I think you could benefit from it. You're coming across as a little insecure and a confidence boost is what I suspect the doctor would order.

God Bless
Suit:)

P.S. If she does a backflip on the trip (which is likely/possible for a WA) or postpones it, don't let it get you down. The seeds been planted. It's just a matter of time.

Last edited by SuitedUp; 06/22/07 12:44 AM.

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