From reading on the bb, and in my own experience, it seems like the ow's our H's have are very controlling. I know that when my H picks up or drops off the kids alone, he is relaxed and likes to chat. But when she is with him, or he is going to see her, he is off like a rocket! He has also started repeating everything I say when I speak to him on the phone and she is there. This is ever since I met her btw.
Yesterday, as he literally ran to his car, I said, "D--- sure has you on a short leash!" He just laughed.
The strange thing is that when he left, he said he was tired of the responsiblities of a husband and father, and wanted to be free! I NEVER put restrictions on him b/c I trusted him completely.
Are these ow just really jealous? Why do the men put up with it? None of the women are that great, from what I read/see. How is it that they have so much power over the MLCers?
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