She can't be intimate with me. So she is looking for something/someone that can meet her sexual needs.
I don't want the D. But I don't know if she is going to change her mind this time. She seems so resolute.
Don't let that sway YOUR decisions. You DON'T file, unless you WANT the D. My W was deadset on getting a D. She filed day 1 of our separation (Mar 31). Since then, she has waited around, we've had two meetings (zero contact otherwise), she hasn't moved on the D at all. She's even thinking about giving us another chance right now. And she was PISSED! She said she couldn't trust me, like your W told you. I think they're projecting their own self-doubt onto us (they don't trust themselves, they know they're doing something untrustworthy, etc.) So I just work on showing her I'm trustworthy. That's all I can do, it's all you can do for your W. Grow your own faith, your own character, your own trust in God, or whatever you believe in. That shows through - telling her you're trustworthy doesn't work, as you've surely noticed.
Good Luck!!!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
