Well thank you all again. Tired of being held in limbo, I finally got hold of W's lawyer today and found out that she has signed the final decree and it has been submitted to the court today. Only awaits a judge's signature to be final.
I guess I got the answer to my original question.
Yesterday I received an email from W (1st contact in 2 weeks or so). It was basically a list of complaints about some past bills on our 2nd home (which she is getting) she thinks I should pay, her losing her addresses when I removed her email accounts from my system (she had long ago opened new accounts for herself anyway), and some general whining about me "not keeping my word" on paying her business's tax prep fee.
Get this--there was one other dig about me "not having a problem running up her legal bills" by emailing/calling her lawyer's office a few times. Basically it was a request for me "to be nice" and give her some more money.
My thoughts are too vitriolic to print. I won't go into the details of why her claims are non-issues but the nerve of her complaining about me "not caring" is rich! The irony of this hypocrisy has to be self-evident--one just gapes!!!
I have not responded and probably won't--ever.
She made a choice, all of this results from what she wanted, and ,yes, I don't consider it my problem anymore since she threw away our M.
