Just wanted to provide an update, in case anyone who helped me is interested... It worked! Goal acheived!
We both were traveling for work over the last couple of weeks, so didn't see each other for over a week. I resisted the urge to call/e-mail, except for one logistical thing we needed to coordinate. I also resisted the urge to make plans when I got home. When I finally did call him, he seemed a little annoyed that I don't "tell him anything anymore". Which isn't really true, but he definnitely noticed that I wasn't calling/emailing. When we did finally see each other (he initiated), he said he missed me. More details in my new thread on Piecing:
Thanks for everyone who made suggestions. I think the combination of not pursuing and GAL'ing got things going; and the ideas about flirting/sexy clothes are helping keep things going. Now, if I can just keep it up!
Me 41 H 42 M 11 years no children Bomb: 10/2006 "I'm better without you than with you." Separated: 12/2006 H moved back: 6/2007