That is a wild ride man, it'll get bumpier too. You really need to start speaking her love language. Go to the library if you have to and read the book. That way at least you're not wasting valuable time on other things that don't make her feel loved.

I'm going to use the line you mentioned about blocking me out because she's afraid she'll reconnect. I know that's the case with my W and I'm going to see what she says. I'll bet she says nothing (that's what she does right now when she doesn't want to admit something to me...)

We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...