Husband,

Don't give her the LL test.

It's chasing. It's obvious why you are doing it.

I think raising your "masculine" amperage might work better than trying to win her over in a "sensitive" way.

There are better ideas.

My sitch is similar to yours.

There are some things we both need to do that I think will work. I need someone to keep me accountable.

email me at theoden.king@hotmail.com Then maybe we can talk. I have gotten alot out of talking to good people on these boards.

You have time on your side. You can get her back.

--Theoden