I also want to recommend a book to you. It is named "NOT Just Friends" by Dr. Shirley Glass.
Here is what Michele has to say about it: "Every once in a while a book comes along that is so illuminating, instructive, down-to-earth, and inspiring that it truly transforms lives. Since no marriage- including yours- is immune to infidelity, Not Just Friends just climbed to the #1 book on my required reading list for couples. This book is a godsend." -- Michele Weiner-Davis, author of The Divorce Remedy and The Sex-Starved Marriage
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.