What is funny "not" is, I bet everything that comes out of his mouth to her, she believes came from me.
Yeah, I get in trouble when he says things to her, but she ignores the things he says to me, or claims she didn't say them.
When S4 was telling me W was saying she misses me and wants me home, I didn't put much stock in it. But I brought it up to my W and she claimed she never said it. I said, well S4 feels it and sees it then. And she said, "How couldn't he, I'm upset all the time!" GOTCHA! Quit being upset and come work on your marriage with your H!
Anyway, no update, over a week since our meeting and not a peep out of the W, not even anything from the pastor, so they must not have spoken yet. Maybe tonight while I have S4, that's what I recommended to him when we last talked - Sundays and the days I have S4 - meet with wife, help her stay positive about giving us another chance. I guess we'll find out tonight...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
