Sorry, I just got back in town. Tell her she's messing with son's head and it's hurting him - he wants his family back together.
Originally Posted By: 789
Originally Posted By: JR2007
I mentioned it to my W at the meetings we've had, and you've seen how she's reacted. She doesn't want to do anything with the 3 of us, she doesn't want to get S4's hopes up, but she knows our family is better together than apart. that's what your W will see, and you'll get a chance to talk to her about it eventually.
Mentioned what, stress on son? I can see your wifes point of view in not wanting to get your sons hopes up doing things together, but that is exactly opposite of what my wife is doing. As for that, maybe I am just reading everything wrong and she is moving forward toward a family status again. Remember, I am male and if not told directly, I don't know what I am suppose to think.
Yes, I mentioned to her that S4 wanted his family back together and shared some things he had said. She thinks she's doing so well by not talking to him about this stuff, but he knows what's up and he doesn't like it. And she needed to know and it touched her (at least at the moment it did.) ----------------
There's not a whole lot you can do to get rid of the worry 100%, I don't know if you even want to. For me it keeps the situation real and reminds me of what I have to do to get myself ready. I don't dwell on it nearly as much as I did, and that's a good thing for my sanity.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
