You know what this is like? It's like when you first met and are so enamored by someone you think of them constantly. WTF, I need a break from my own friggin' mind!
Yeah, i know what you mean. I think its kinda "overcompensation". we know that if we look really hard at them, we're gonna get turned off... so we trick ourselves into looking at just the good things baout them.. and then faced with such a "perfect" person, we go nuts over em I've been through that cycle once or twice myself this last year!
I say... enjoy the romantic "high", but also do stuff for you at the same time.
Enjoy the positive feelings about your wife. Try to remember them for times when you dont quite feel this way. Meanwhile.. just enjoy!
[edit: oops.. you said it was not all "good" things. well, in that case.. yeah, you DEFINATELy need to find some 'fun' stuff for you to get busy with! ]
Last edited by Dom, Rand; 06/21/0708:40 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
