If you answer is NO then it is not all your fault. We all get so tied up in everyday routines as parents and husbands that we forget about ourselves and do not see what we are doing wrong and or right. Just becomes a motion and a daily routine.
Get up Take a shower Come home Eat Go to bed.
Day in and day out not realizing we are neglecting the important aspects of our lives. This is where someone need to just say hey WTF do you think you are doing or please understand what is going on here.
I know from expierience that my STBXW did not say anything and I know I had my own faults that I did not see and if she would have just came out and said it I would have worked through them. But she did and I did not realize. It was the whole communication gap between man and woman I guess.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."