She's leaving again

[ShesGreat]

The mistake you made was telling her that the C was for you and her. You only need to work on you now and not worry about her. You can only control you!

So what if she went to see a L today, that doesn't mean anything, I know it's scary and hard but just be patient. What she need to see from you is that you are making these changes for you and only you. There are no guarantees that she will get back with you, but making changes will make you a better person with or without her. I know you want it to be with her, right? So you need to get to work on you!

You have to remember that our WAS's don't think that they have a problem: hence the "for us?!" comment that she made. In her mind the us is hanging by a thread, do it for you. Work on you!