As for this test. The day that I did this test with my W and small group is the day I was told about the A. What a kick in the nuts that was. I learned that morning that my W LL's are words of affirmation and acts of service.... Well I have not had many opportunities to do either. I agree with CL this is a risky move and will probably come across as pursueing. A better approach is to ask her one set of questions a day in a subtle way. I would not let her know what you are up to.... Actually come to think of it a better way would be to implement each LL and see if or how she reacts. You did the gift thing and that did not seem make her feel loved....maybe it did but from what you posted you did not recieve much of a reaction. Try implementing a different LL each week and see the responce that you get from her. Overtime you should be able to determine her LL(s).
For all those who care to know mine are words of affirmation and physical touch. Neither of them I get from my W.
