Okay, I'm a little confused if H is in withdrawl stage or has accepted things the way they are is moving on.
We have been separated since October 2004 and filed D in July 2005. OW was in the picture (that I'm aware of) from December 2005 to November/December 2006. Since his leaving in 2004 he has done the back/forth thing. Last time he lived with me was October 2006 for two weeks. H announced he preferred to be by himelf because he doesn't have to answer to anyone. We decided to follow through with D. Shortly after that he wanted to "try" to make it work. In December 2006 and January 2007 we would meet for lunch.
In mid-February 2007 this is where I expect the Withdrawl began. The phone calls suddenly came to a halt. H did make contact D13 every now and then but not me. In mid-April he started coming by the house to visit with D13 briefly and we would be cordial to each other.
Out of the blue the first week of May we had sex. We began having sex at least once a week up until 2 weeks ago. I began to think back to the phone calls he made to me and I realized they were only when he wanted to have sex with me. H did call me last week to let me know he wouldn't be able to give me any child support until the following week. He explained he got a traffic ticket that he needed to pay and he was sorry for putting this on me (having me wait for child support).
H is contacting D13 more and is even having her for the weekend next week. H has not had D13 visit with him since his leaving in October.
Does anyone think H is in Withdrawl or has this separation finally run it's course for him and now he wants nothing more but move on with his life without me in it?
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years
