You have to throw yourself into something else. YES, you have to force yourself. I actually stop thinking about my wife for long chunks of time right now. It is very hard when I'm alone but then I just get on my knees and pour out my heart to God and that helps.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...