I didn't expect you to agree with me, but I didn't expect such hostility either.
In Retrouvaille they specifically ask us not to try to teach other people, but to encourage people to go to a weekend. It is a complete experience that cannot be duplicated at home. They helped me when I needed help, and I do not want to break a trust with them.
However, I see the pain that Donna is in and I feel it too. I would like to share what worked for myself and my husband if it is useful to her.
The difference between you and me is that I am now happily married to my same husband, can you say the same thing?