I am not sure what your agenda is here. I have always been leary of posters who want to provide private self-help to people behind the scenes because they don't want to share the secret in public. It smacks of some kind of scheme to exploit vulnerable people. I know you mention Retrouvaille, but unless you have some kind of vested interest in the program, I am not sure why you would not explain one of the communication tools here. It is a religiously affiliated program, so I would not expect them to be propriatary about tools that help Ms.