No it's not true. 789 said it best I think. Divorces have be come virtually drive thru easy. Those that don't want the divorce hit the wall sooner then the ones that end up regretting things down the road.
My lawyer told me something very interesting. He says he has a higher % of people getting divorced and re-married than people that legally separate and come back together.
That says something in itself.
NMHurting,
I totally agree. In a way, I feel like some people need to be divorced. They need to turn the page and start over again.
In my case, my exW did not see how much I was changing. She thought I was changing or wanting to become something I am not. She thought the "changes" would not stick. The sad thing is she failed to realize how much of a rut I was in for 12 years; I had become someone else. NOT ME! My "changes" were just me getting back to being me! If she had actually looked at me with open eyes and an open heart, she would have seen I am the man she wants to be with.
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
