Don't read to much into the a/c thing. It will just eat you alive. Let it be.
Focus on your son and yourself for now.
We talk about taking baby steps, you almost have to completely stop walking until she gets curious again.
NMHurting,
I appreciate your words. The tough part to come to grips with is this takes time either way. If she does come back, we would need to still live separately and go to counseling for six to twelve months. If she does not, it takes time to get over this. There is no magic way to expedite things. I know our WASs think they can sweep it under the rug or "deal with it" as my exW said. It is just not true.
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
