Don't read to much into the a/c thing. It will just eat you alive. Let it be.
Focus on your son and yourself for now.
We talk about taking baby steps, you almost have to completely stop walking until she gets curious again.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."