I think a lot of people have moments of clarity when the reality sets in. I know when she dropped the D-bomb on me that I suddenly did...both good and bad.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."