She's been direct enough with me to tell me it's because she hates her body, although I'm guessing there are other issues surrounding this, even on top of 'tiredness with work', 'two young kids', 'headaches' and so on, and so on.
As someone pointed out a little while ago, you don't have to keep the lights on.
But... she hasn't exactly ruled S out completely in the future, though - she basically says that it'll be "her choice when it happens". Yeah, that's fair enough, I can't force her. Only thing is, I'm waiting and waiting and waiting, and nothing concrete seems to be happening - although I have noticed a big increase in affection & communication between us in the last couple weeks. Got an 'ILY' after work last night, and another this morning, amongst other nice stuff.
So that's where I'm coming from in all this - I'm basically trying to decide *how much longer* I can wait, whilst at the same time GAL, PMA and all that kind of stuff.
It's especially difficult because the *only* issue we have right now is sex. Everything else is really good right now, however I don't think it will be long before that big old elephant in the room tramples all over the nice stuff.
And then shits on it just to make sure.
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It's more common to hear "I just am not turned on by it/sex
