DBers,

My exW has picked up a bunch of stuff from me in the past. She has always requested I leave it on the back porch. I find this rather odd; it seems like she wants to avoid seeing me. I know I should not be analyzing this; however, I am. To me, it seems like she is afraid seeing me will stir up some emotions. If she is really “over it” what is the big deal? Should I just put the things out? Should I at least make her knock on the door?

She asked me to leave a heavy item which I know she cannot lift. Asked her if she will be able to lift it to see what her answer is.

Also, my son has been very sick and I have been posting and corresponding with a prayer list she is on. So, she knows my son is sick. Yet, I have not heard a peep from her. She has not even bothered to send an e-mail. What gives?

I appreciate any insight or comments.

Thanks,

RMG


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