How do I know if we're ready for piecing?

[TreadingWater]

So, H brought up moving back in. I said I thought that was a good idea, but that I wanted to talk about some things first - like what we'd need to do differently. Unfortunately, it was a short conversation, since we were on our way to meet friends for dinner. This was Tuesday night. I didn't really come up last night; and I leave town Saturday for a week. He needs to end his lease at the end of a month and give 30 days notice, so needs to decide before I leave or ends up paying another months rent. So... should I raise the issue? Tonight? Tomorrow night? Maybe raise it tonight, but suggest that we talk about it Friday night, so he's prepared? I've been trying not to initiate R talk, but wonder if I really should raise this given the deadline and that he brought it up first.

Any thoughts or suggestions?

He's been spending most nights with me even though it's not all that convenient for him to go back and forth to his apartment. Yay!

P.S. Sorry for the multiple postings earlier in the thread. If anyone knows a way to delete them, let me know.